Sunday, February 22, 2009

Advice unsolicited

I used to have an elderly lady as a patient. She suffered multiple chronic illnesses like severe diabetes, heart disease, eczema and she managed her life with these disabilities fairly well. She was a good patient in that she kept her appointments, followed my instructions and paid me well.

She lived alone with a helper but had a large number of relations living in the city, country and abroad and was popular with all of them and they frequently visited her.

Once, she came to see me and I could see that she was very agitated. I asked her what the matter was. She said, ‘Doctor, my nephew told me that I have Parkinson’s disease. I went to the Internet and what I read there has got me very scared, how can I manage with this terrible disease now?

I could sympathize with her as Parkinson’s disease is an illness which can be very disabling. The sufferer gradually loses control over muscle coordination and becomes stiff and rigid. Worse there is no proper treatment or cure in sight. But she did not have Parkinson’s disease and how could she believe her nephew? I asked her. She said, ‘no doctor, he is a neurosurgeon living in the US and when he saw me shuffling, he told me that I have this disease and I should take treatment’

It took me more than half an hour to convince her that merely a shuffling gait is no evidence of this disease and lot of elderly men and women take small steps but have no other signs and she has excellent gait and movement. She went convinced.

This is a problem that I frequently face in my practice. Unsolicited advice given on the spur of the moment like this neurosurgeon did. One look at his aunt’s shuffle and he diagnoses Parkinson’s disease. If he had that much concern he could have called me and expressed his concern instead of needlessly frightening his aunt out of her wits. I would have tried convincing him. Weather I would have succeeded or not is a different matter.

My patients receive this kind of unsolicited advice from other doctors at casual social meetings and cause me no end of problem afterwards. I also get asked questions and opinions like this from persons who are not my patients. I have a stock answer. I tell them to see me in my clinic if they are unhappy with their own physician. This usually shuts them up and sometimes ends the conversation which is to my advantage! Because I like to be left alone most of the times!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

If my guess is correct the neurosurgeon must have just completed his internship and rather inexperienced. These are the ones who give unsolicited advise and scare the wits out of people. My sister, and me too, have come to one conclusion. Never go to a doctor unless he has sufficient grey hairs.The young ones will have either bought their seats in the medical college or have gained entry through reservation quota.